Rebuilding After Cancer and Loss

My name is Fina, and I’m reaching out for support as I work to rebuild my life after a series of overwhelming challenges. In February of last year, I was diagnosed with cancer. Without reliable transportation or much assistance, my treatment involved emergency room visits, strict diets, heavy supplements, and rounds of medication. The process left me exhausted, severely underweight, and immunocompromised. I lost 40 pounds, struggled with constant nausea, and faced hair loss. Even now, I’m working hard to regain my strength and manage the lingering side effects.

On top of my health struggles, I suffered a miscarriage due to a roommate’s one night stand and endured extreme abuse at the hands of the women I lived with, including psychological, mental, emotional, verbal, and sexual abuse. I am currently recovering from a very rough pregnancy and miscarriage while also fighting cancer and coping with the stress of that situation. I’ve since moved to a protected address to stay safe and be closer to my fiancé, M. I am otherwise away from my family and have no other support system. The financial strain has been immense—I’m still facing medical bills, a loan I had to take out when I couldn’t work, and ongoing costs for medication, food, and transportation.

Asking for help is the last thing I ever wanted to do, but I’m in survival mode and out of options. Your support would mean the world to me, helping me cover essential expenses and giving me a chance to heal and move forward. I truly and sincerely appreciate each and every one of you who takes the time to read my story and offer support.